Is it okay if I am not interested to talk to any of my relatives as I saw the real faces in my brother's marriage as none of them helped us rather were a kind of disappointment and were talking bad?
07.06.2025 11:31

Same thing happend in my sister's wedding evryone just came and sat like raja mahraja no one helped. No one was present at the nanak shak (nanak shak means when all the gifts and presents evrything are shown to everyone from the maternal side which they are giving to every relatives from the peternal side) my dad did the stupidest thing for hiring my cuzin as a wedding photographer who did a shitty job evey photographer was sleeping at the main time of the ceremonies and worst part his parent my taya tayi and himself was forcing my father to go with them to somone elses marriage two days before my sister wedding. We did all the work on our own one of my chachi thought it would be funny and a stresw reliver for them to ask me that am i angry with all of them (and she is one of the closest chachi i had compared to others) i said why would i be angry. She said bcz we were not present their during ceromany and other activities then i blasted evryone on their face in front of evryone by saying ofcorse i am angry cuz u all came and doing nothing and now acting like so what why the fuck u all came here if u didnt wanted to help better came on the day of weeding give shagun and rhe get the fucked out from there. Since then i mostly kept distance from evyone i hardly talk to anyone. And u should do the same as these relatives are nothing but parasites. You di good then they will speak bad abt u, you do bad then difintly they will say bad things abt you and even if u stay nutrel then they u r thali ka bangain thers is no pleasung to them. So my advice stay away from evryone and make sure if they ask why u r behaving like this blast them and show them their aukaat and thats why im keeping safe distance from u all plz get the fuck away from me and my family . Trust me the more u say on their face and as soon as possible u will feel better and in future will stay calm and at peace without these assholes